Thursday 4 January 2018

LIFESTYLE: New Year New Attitude

New year new attitude. 

Ok so finally 2018 has landed and I finally feel like I’m in the right frame
Of mind to actually live my best life. Iv allowed my previous years to be over shadowed by life’s problems. 2017 I found myself reliving things that were holding me back, broken friendships, bad judgement, overwhelming pain and self doubt with a touch of anxiety and depression. I got lost under a whole load of emotions I didn’t want to deal with. 

I felt alone and unworthy, dealing with adulting and parenting was all too much for me, maintaining friendships and relationships wasn’t my strong point and when it hit midnight on NYE something just clicked in me. 

I am not going to let my pain rule my life. 
I am going to find my passions and strengths. 
I’m going to kick ass at parenting. 
I’m going to stop eating my emotions. 
I’m going to work hard on my marriage. 
My friendships are going to be a priority. 
I’m going to stop living under clutter and make a huge dent in the crap I own by either giving to charity, the tip or selling. 
I’m going to make a conscious effort to keep up with self care. 
I’m going to make a 5 year plan and budget. 
No more imposes buying. 

And that’s just the beginning. I have not felt this positive in years and yes I still have adulting problems I still need to sort out but I’m going to deal with them with a different attitude, I am no longer a victim .... I am a survivor and I will fight each day to ensure I better my life and the loves of those around me. 

Much love to you all. 



  1. Good luck in 2018. I hope it treats you right.

    1. Thank you so much. I hope you have a wonderful year x

  2. YES! Go you! Good luck with your plans and i wish you all the best x

  3. Oh hun, sorry to hear about the broken friendships and pain but I am so happy to hear that you have a positive mindset for the year ahead. May 2018 be a magical year for you!

  4. Good luck with this Aimee but don't be too hard on yourself. I'm 54 this year and I STILL have 'adulting problems'.

  5. It can be really tough at times. Thanks for sharing. i hope things can improve soon.

  6. I'm trying to let go of the past as well. Fresh year fresh start I hope this year is a wonderful one for you x

  7. I am sorry for what you have gone through and it can be so hard, but now you are looking to a better 2018 which is a step in the right direction.

  8. Cheers to 2018!Everyday is the best time to be the best version of ourselves.

  9. Good luck and happy new year. This year im determined to get my fitness back on track and also have more self care